2. Why Must We Have
Self Belief?
3. Do You Have Self
Belief?
4. How Do You Develop
Self Belief?
These article is prepared to address all the questions above.
1) What is self belief? According to the Collins Online Dictionary Self
belief is confidence in yourself and your ability to things successfully. I
will define self belief as the assurance and complete acceptance of oneself
despite all the uncertainties around us. It is the complete believe in oneself
and the ability that anything is possible and achievable. Self belief is an
important to exploit because once you don't believe in yourself, no one will
ever believe in you. Certainly when you don't believe in yourself and nobody
believe in you then you are a complete failure.
Why Must We have Self Belief? In this kidde you can get nothing without
self belief. As a Christian and i believe in every other religions too,
believing the God we serve must be one of the things that are been taught.
Personally as a christian, the Bible says "man must be faithful" (1
Cor. 4:2).
To get anything from God you must believe in Him, same too for you to
make exploit and explore your inner strenght, you must believe in yourself.
Since self belief is the confidence in yourself and ability to do things
successfully, you must believe in your abilities, you must trust your instincts
positively to be successful in every of your life endeavours.
Sometimes ago when i finished my secondary school (High School), I
started teaching in a private school, but a time came when the proprietor could
not pay the salaries of teachers, i decided to quit and search for job else
where, when i left the teaching job, i saw vacancy in a Chinese company
searching for factory workers and i decided to apply. When i was called for
interview the Chinese man said " I will employ you but i don't trust
Africans", this rang a bell in my head because i'm a kind of person whith
high level of confidence and i speak with audacity, i also hate discriminations
thus i asked the Chinese man "If you don't trust Africans, why should you
employ me? Why should Africans work in your company?" then he said "
You challenge me, you must have got alot of confidence! And he Asked why did
you challenged me in such way? I can choose not to employ you and there is
nothing you can do for me!!". Then i replied him "If you don't employ
me, i can get a better paid job else where because i have what it takes and
alot of abilities that alot of organizations will want to explore for
betterment of their organization, so if you don't employ me, i will gladly
leave". After the replies, the Chinese man was amazed and ask a few
leadership questions after which he asked me to resume the next monday. But to
my utmost suprise when i resumed the next monday he asked me to head the
packaging and design department. I was really amazed and scared at first
seriously, but saw this occur as a result of my Self Belief and confidence how
my abilities. I would have just been an ordinary factory worker if i had not
challenged the Chinese man and change his belief in Africans.
Believe me with high level of self believe you can attain any height and
achieve anything because if you don't believe in yourself, your abilities, you
can't believe in other people. In my own opinion, you can not even believe in
God if you don't first believe in yourself because the basis is you first
believe you are human before you believe a Supreme God must have created you
and not just creating you but creating you for a purpose and in the process of
you wanting to realize this purpose you get closer and begin to worship this
mighty creator.
Another important aspect of self belief is if you don't believe in
yourself, your self esteem will be low and low self esteem can be a root cause
of some mental health problems and can cause a vicious circle. You think
negative of yourself, you feel bad about yourself, you feel depressed and this
will only make things work because when it get to this extent, you will
completely lost focus in anything. So finally for this episode, with high level
of self belief, self assurance, you can achieve anything and attain any height.
This is where i will stop for now but do check back for the continuation of
Self Belief: Key to exploit 2. Thank you for your time, i hope you are in the
next level of your understanding of your self belief. Stay blessed and don't
forget If you put God first in anything you do, you should be sure of success.
That's belief.. See you in the next episode.
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